Showing posts with label gratitude. Show all posts
Showing posts with label gratitude. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 22, 2014

Snowmageddon

We left Denver On Saturday, January 4th, knowing that a big snow storm was about to hit the east coast and the midwest. As we prepared to leave the night before and checked the weather forecast, we saw that snow was expected to hit Denver starting at 6am, with the storm heading east along our planned travel path. So we left at 5:30am as snow was starting to come down. It took about 30 minutes of driving before we got completely ahead of the snow and onto dry roads. The rest of our 12 hour drive was dry, but anytime we stopped for gas breaks, we could see snowflakes starting to fall as we finished each break. It reminded me of the movie "The Day After Tomorrow" where the big "freeze" is following right behind them. We had to keep breaks short and keep driving to stay ahead of the storm behind us. We got to Grace's house in St. Louis about an hour before the snow hit.

Sunday was a very relaxed day. We had no intentions to attempt driving home in the snow storm, so we stayed with Grace another day. In anticipation of the weather, Church had been cancelled for much of the St. Louis area. We stayed inside all day and watched the snow fall. That day happened to be my birthday, so we celebrated.

Grace made me a cake and helped all the kids make Birthday cards for me.
I felt very loved.

We played games and snacked on food all day long.

By Monday morning, the sky was clear and we figured the roads would have been plowed and salted enough that we could slowly and carefully drive the (normally) 4.5 hours back home to Indiana.
This is the view out Grace's front window. Her husband, David, braved the negative temperature outside to shovel a path to our car and clear the mountain of snow off of it. They loaded us up with snacks, water and an emergency candle just in case something happened. I thought for sure that everyone was overreacting about the severity of the storm and that we'd be home by that afternoon.

How very wrong I was.

Leaving St. Louis, the roads weren't too bad. They were mostly clear, with patches here and there, but we could drive about 40-50mph safely on them so we were feeling pretty good.

It's hard to see in this picture, but this is the Mississippi River, frozen over......

In all the years and winters that I've spent in St. Louis, I've never seen the mighty Mississippi completely frozen. It was ridiculously cold!!

 We kept going on I-70 through Illinois. The road conditions were getting a little worse, but still drive-able.

We passed several cars and Semis that had slid off the road. Rarely was there a person inside the car (Thank goodness they had already been taken to safety), but there was no way to tow a car out of a ditch in all this mess. Many of the semi trucks had flipped onto the side. It was starting to dawn on us how severe this storm was and we said several prayers during the drive of gratitude for our continued safety.

Just before Effingham, IL, we reached a traffic standstill. (The trucks and our car in the picture below are stopped on the highway. We would never be following that closely behind if we were moving.)
You can see how bad the roads were at this point. You could not see a single patch of road; it was entirely covered in packed snow and ice.

This is what we were driving on. Scary.

After not moving for quite some time, we turned on the radio and discovered that there had been an accident further up the highway and we had to wait for the road to be cleared. We waited in that exact spot for almost 3 hours. Cars as far as we could see in front of us, cars as far as we could see behind us.

 Luckily, the boys slept through most of the down time.

We finally got past the traffic. By this point, it was 4pm. It took us 7 hours to travel what normally takes 1.5 hours. And we were still very far from home. Knowing we wouldn't make it home before dark, and knowing how dangerous the roads were even when it was light out, we stopped in Effingham to get a hotel.

So did thousands of other people.

All the truckers and all the travelers were occupying every single hotel. We called and/or drove to over 15  hotels and not one of them had a room for us. I called my Dad who looked up some hotels in the next town down the road. We called several places and finally found a Day's Inn who would book a room for us. Now we just had to drive 30 miles to reach Mattoon, IL. At a speed of 15-20 mph, it took us a while, but we made it.  In the 130 miles from St. Louis to Mattoon, we passed 31 semis and 61 cars that had slid off the road. And I'm sure I missed counting several cars when I was on the phone trying to find us a hotel. Yes, we counted. It became a game of sorts to count and find all the cars buried under snow drifts.

We grabbed some Taco Bell for dinner (Thank you for being open!) and parked at the Days Inn. Finally! The day is over right?..... right?....

Even though we had called ahead to book a room, we still had to wait in a line of several other people who also had a room booked. Our kids ran around the lobby making friends with everyone.  After 2 hours in line we finally got to the desk, checked in and got a key card. We walked to our room, unlocked the door... and there was already a family in our room. What?! Mckay went back to the desk to sort the mix-up out while I tried to keep the kids in line again. I was so grumpy, tired and fed up by this point. About 15 minutes later, Mckay led us to our new room: an exterior (meaning a drafty door with all the wind and -20 degree temperature) smoking room (we booked a non-smoking) that had not been cleaned from the previous occupant and had "used" sheets. And yet, despite the sub par conditions, I was so glad to be "safe." After cranking up the heat, we said a prayer as a family, thankful that we had a safe, warm place to sleep and that our car was fine and working.

We spent all day Tuesday in Mattoon. We checked road conditions online throughout the day and everything indicated that Indiana highways were not quite safe for travel yet. We got groceries, watched a lot of TV in the hotel, and prepared to hopefully leave Wednesday morning. On Wednesday, the temperature was in the 30s (a heat wave compared to the days before!), Indiana highways were looking clearer, and we needed some clean clothes to wear, so we drove home!
After all the time we'd spent in the car those past few days, the boys did really great for the last leg of our journey. Though Connor got grumpy if you denied him snacks.
Over the next 150 miles of road, we saw 28 more semis and 80 more cars off the road. We made it home in the early afternoon and we were so excited to finally eat lunch in our own home again.

After we got home, there were some minor things to deal with, like shoveling the 18 inch snow drifts off our driveway so we could get in, and thawing the frozen (but not broken, thank goodness!) pipes so we could use water. And there was the flat tire on our car that mysteriously showed up only after we made it all the way home.

That's the epic tale of our journey home. But we did finally make it home, and that's the most important thing. 
And it keeps snowing, so we haven't left our house much ever since.

Friday, November 29, 2013

Day 29: Christmas decorations

We put up our Christmas decorations today. Well, we already had the tree up so we put up the rest of our decorations.




We (mostly Mckay) put up the lights on the house.

 I made some paper snowflakes to hang over the piano.

 The instructions to make these are pretty easy. I've collected many many pages of sheet music from various Christmas and Easter choir performances I've played for, so I used some of those papers to make the snowflakes.

I was very excited to get out the Advent Calendar I made last year. I spent so much time with it last year, it was like seeing an old friend. I have to find the perfect place to hang it up and then maybe I'll take an updated picture of it.

I'm thankful for Christmas decorations. They make our house look so festive and cheerful. I'm thankful for the constant reminder of the upcoming holiday and the reason we celebrate.

Thursday, November 28, 2013

Day 28: Purdue

Today I am thankful for Purdue and that Mckay has a job. 

For Thanksgiving, I made 4 pies: 2 pecan and 2 apple.
These two pies above I made to take to a local organization that provides meals to families in need. Thinking about others who don't have very much made me really grateful for what we do have. I'm really glad that Mckay gets paid to do research and be a student. I'm glad that all our needs are met. Sure, we budget our money and spend carefully, but we have everything we need.
 We have a wonderful house with two boys who kept eating all my pie crust scraps.
We always have plenty of food on our table, like the delicious rolls in the picture above rising on the table.

I'm thankful that Purdue brought us to Indiana. We've had a great experience here. 

We have a pretty wonderful life. I'm grateful for this holiday that reminds us to be grateful.

Wednesday, November 27, 2013

Day 27: friends

I'm thankful for wonderful friends. Being here in Indiana for school, it can be difficult to be away from our family at times. We've been blessed to develop friendships with some wonderful people here. In our home away from home, they've become our family away from family. 

We celebrate birthdays together, we conquered canning together, we have Easter Egg hunts together, babysit each other kids, borrow tools and equipment from each other, have playgroups together, the list goes on and on.

Through husbands on military deployment, deaths in the family, new babies born, and medical procedures for our kids, we're here for each other. It's nice to have a good support system and people I know I can count on to help us when we need it. Our friends invite us to fun things, like a Halloween Doughnut Party.

Or there was the time this summer when we went to the Zoo and had a picnic lunch and rain started pouring down on us just as we finished eating.
We eventually ditched the pavilion to run to our cars only to have the rain come down even harder. Even though we were all soaked, we made sure all the kids made it to the cars.

Through rain or sun, we have some pretty awesome friends. I'm thankful for them.

Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Day 26: music

I love music. I love listening to it. I love playing music myself on the piano. I love to hear other people play the piano. I'm amazed at how quickly music can affect our emotions. Happy, lively music makes us want to dance. Scary music makes us feel uncomfortable. If you ever watch a scary movie, you'll notice that it's the music you hear that clues you in on when something bad is about to happen. Take the movie Jaws for example: 

duh nuh....     duh nuh..... duh nuh.. duh nuh duh nuh DUH NUH DUH NUH DUHNUH!!!

Or think of Psycho. REE! REE! REE! 

Take the music away, and scary movies lose a lot of suspense and scariness. Although, it's still pretty scary to see someone stabbed in the shower.

I feel like I'm getting off track here.........  I love how HAPPY music can make us. I love this time of year when listening to Christmas music makes us feel nostalgic and remember how magical Christmas is.

I'm thankful that I know how to play the piano and the organ. I'm so glad that my parents had me take piano lessons and encouraged me to practice. I'm grateful for my wonderful teachers who helped me develop this talent. I love that I get to teach piano lessons now to 6 great kids. Sometimes I wonder why I do it; my life is certainly busy enough as a full-time mom and wife of a grad student. But I love seeing my students learn new things. I love hearing them stumble through a song only to come back a week later to hear it played perfectly. Practicing really does help! I love to hear them get excited about music. When they tell me, "I heard a song this week and I think it was in a minor key!", my music heart just melts.

I enjoy preparing little games/activities for my students to do that reinforce theory or terms we just learned.
I wish I could say that I come up with all of them myself, but most of my ideas come from other music bloggers or my Pinterest board.

I'm thankful that I get to teach my boys about music. I can already see their interest in it.
(This picture was taken over a year and a half ago when I first started teaching. Dallin looks so young here! Well, mostly the same size but his cheeks are less chubby now.)


I'm thankful for music, for how much it's blessed my life and allowed me to bless others.

Monday, November 25, 2013

Day 25: Family Home Evening

I've mentioned before that we do a family night every Monday after dinner and we call it Family Home Evening. We set that time aside as a special, "family only" time. We don't watch tv, worry about dishes or anything else during that time. We spend it together as a family. We talk about a variety of topics like kindness, faith, sharing, prayer, gratitude, etc. Tonight, we talked about gratitude. I made a tree cutout and lots of little leaves.
As part of our evening, we took turns writing things we are thankful for on the leaves and put them on our tree.
This is hanging up in our kitchen to remind us of the things we're grateful for.

Next we put the ornaments up on the Christmas tree. When we put the tree up a few nights ago, we only got around to putting up lights.

The boys careful unwrapped all my snowmen ornaments.

Mckay helped them place the ornaments.

I remember during Christmases when I was a kid, my mom always put up this homemade Santa ornament that my brother made. It was far from perfect looking and we always wondered why Mom wanted this ornament on the tree among the other beautiful ones. Now I know why she did it. 
Dallin made this Santa ornament last year in preschool. I love it. I think I'll be putting it on our tree for many years.

I'm thankful for Family Home Evening. We get so busy and wrapped up in all the things we have to do. I'm glad that we can take some time each week to be together as a family, to spend some time teaching our children and enjoy being with them.

Sunday, November 24, 2013

Day 24: new experiences

 I'm thankful that we get to try new things. Life would be pretty boring if we had to choose one thing to do for the rest of our life and we never got to do anything else. I like experiencing new things. When Mckay and I had the opportunity a few weeks ago to learn curling, we were pretty excited.
Yes, Curling. The winter sport you always see on the Olympics but have never actually known how its played. Well, now I know!

Mckay has a Chem.E. friend here at Purdue that curls and was even on his college curling team as an undergrad.
Erik is connected in the Curling community and still plays regularly. There is a Chicago curling club and they often invite new comers in to learn how to curl. So we found some wonderful people to watch our children all day on a Saturday and we drove to Chicago (2.5 hrs away) to go curling.

Curling ice is a little different from ice skating or hockey ice. Right before a game, it's misted with a hose so lots of little drops of water freeze on the ice and make it"bumpy."
 The guy in the middle is spraying the ice. The guy on the right is leveling and evening out all the bumps.

We were brought onto the ice, taught a few basics and then we curled!
 
I felt a little goofy at first, but once I got the hang of it, I felt very graceful gliding across the ice.

After we played a game with the whole group, they let the three of us stay on the ice for a while longer. Mckay and I played a few rounds against each other and Erik helped and directed us.
 We had a lot of fun! It is a really cool sport to learn. Everyone was very nice and accepting of us beginners, even the experts who have been playing for 30+ years.

 There was a little museum in the building where we got so see some really old curling stone and brooms.

Worn out and starving after a hard day of curling, we got some traditional deep dish Chicago pizza.
We had never tried authentic Chicago pizza before and it tasted beyond amazing! The crust, the cheese, the slab of sausage that covered the entire pizza.... all soooo good! It was already night and we still had a long drive ahead of us to get home to our kids, so Mckay snuck in a few bites of pizza while driving.
 Don't worry, Mckay while eating pizza is still safer than most of the Chicago drivers who were texting or looking at their phones while driving.

I'm grateful for new experience and learning new things. I especially love new food experiences. And now I'm really excited to watch the winter Olympics in a few months so I can see more curling.

Saturday, November 23, 2013

Day 23: surprise packages

Don't you love getting mail? I mean real mail that a person you know sent to you. It always brightens my day to know that someone was thinking of me. It's even more exciting when you weren't expecting anything. We got a surprise package in the mail today.
It was a Christmas package from my brother and his wife. They have our family for Christmas this year. Good job on getting your shopping done early guys!

 Dallin was very excited about the Star Wars stickers in the box.

Connor was excited about the candy in the box.
 Yes, Dallin's pants are on backwards. His doing, not mine.

We had to find somewhere to put the presents until Christmas, so we set up our Christmas tree. We usually wait until the day after Thanksgiving, but Dallin and Connor were really excited for it so we did it.

The boys ask all the time now if it can be Christmas and if they can open the presents. They are doing surprisingly well with leaving the presents alone. We haven't had to re-wrap any yet. Now their attention has turned to the box that the presents were mailed in.

"Oh no! They found me! I must hide!"

We love packages. Thank you, John and Becky!

Friday, November 22, 2013

Day 22: helpers

 I'm grateful for my little helpers. They love to copy and do what Mckay and I do. Sometimes they are actually helpful. Friday is homemade pizza night. I usually just make one big pizza for us to share, but since Halloween when I let the boys make their own personal pizzas, they now expect to make their own every time. It hadn't occurred to them before Halloween that they were allowed to touch the dough. Tonight, when I told the boys I was going to start making the dough for pizza, Connor starting chanting "make pizza, make pizza, make pizza" as he cleared the dishes off the table. 
You gotta have a clear space to assemble the pizzas! Connor is becoming quite helpful and I love that he saw this "need" without me saying anything about it. 

It should be noted that Connor is without clothes in the above picture because he was "helping" me clean the bathroom and poured Comet powder all over the bathtub and his clothes. He's not always so helpful.

They make the dough pretty much on their own. I tell Dallin how many scoops of each thing and Connor stirs.

I'm so thankful for my helpful boys.